There has been some posts meanwhile. This was an answer on fvdw thinking if sde2 could be active device 3.
unlucky1 has moved this disks from nas1 to nas2 (and back?) and we have some strange name-mangling, so I think it's not really predictable which 'active device' sde2 should be.
Anyway, it doesn't matter. Each raid member has it's role written in it's metadata. You can exchange disks, and still the array can be assembled.
I think it's a good idea to exchange disks, so that sdb and sdc are in a slot which now contains a healty raid member, to see if the problem is slot-related. Problem is that I'm tired, and cannot think about which physical disks that are (name mangling)
For the moment I'm stopping, I need some sleep.