I don't follow you in the last part of your post.:scratch .
Did you follow the instruction and kept the nas switched until the uboot window mentioned waiting for uboot?
The nas must receive from the fvdw-sl console a signal to interupt boot and switch to netconsole mode of uboot enabling uploading of the standalone kernel. If the uboot window keeps mentioning waiting for uboot when you switch on the nas then the signal of the console is not reaching the nas, either due to firewall issues, a bad wireless connection , more then one network interface, a router not teansmitting a broadcast signal. In vmware environment I am not sure if the console has acces to your network interface on all ports.